Problem 1. How to deal with the wimps who go down like they have been shot following a tackle:
Solution: make the player leave the field of play for 5 minutes - they clearly need time to get over their horrendous injury! This will soon stop players play-acting as they will be penalizing their team
Problem 2. How to instil some respect for referees
Solution: Simple - send any player off who intimidates a referee - Make it like Rugby Union where the players actually respect referees. Yes referees are human and will make mistakes - get over it!
If these changes were made, football would become much more watchable, and would flow so much better and half the Manchester United, Chelsea and Aresnal players would be serving 3-match bans.